The act of calling a girl after you’ve scored her number can be intimidating. If that’s the case, you might want to start off with sending her a text. Indeed, asking a girl out over text is perfectly fine as long as you don’t do that every time you wish to go out on a date with her. Many guys will also start to wonder about things like “Why hasn’t she replied my text” or “I don’t know what to text her.”
Guys like these need to relax. Period. If you’re one of them, you have been over analyzing the things she’s texting you. If you keep on doing this, you’ll risk sounding like the weird guy that all girls hate going out with. It’ll be even worse if you actually ask her that. Do not under any circumstances ask a girl why she’s taking such a long time to reply that. It reeks of desperation all over. Also, don’t use too many haha’s or lol’s. Only use them if the girl has said something really funny. Otherwise, there’s really no point to them and they may be annoying after a while. I have a friend that finishes all his sentences with a ‘lol’ and honestly, it’s a complete turn-off. If you have nothing else to say, just don’t say anything.
Also, if you want to ask questions over text, don’t spam her with them. Ask your questions 1 by 1 and wait for her replies to each one of those before you ask her another. I’d suggest using some of the ideas here at http://howtotextagirlguide.net/ to text a girl that you’re into. It’ll be better if you can space them out so that she wouldn’t feel suffocated in any way.
Don’t be like the other guys. Most typical guys will send her texts like “Hi, you free tonight?” so it’s boring. A hot girl will probably be asked multiple times a day to go out on dates and she’s used to rejecting most of them so what chances do you think you’d have if you’re just like them? Your ultimate goal should be to make her like you enough that when you ask her out, she wouldn’t even think of possibly rejecting you.
You can do this by portraying yourself to be fun and outgoing. Even your texts can seem exciting with the right words. Tease her and tell her interesting things about yourself. Don’t talk about your work or your boring daily routines. If you have a piece of interesting gossip, let her know about it and tell her it’s a secret between the two of you. Girls love gossip and knowing that they’re in the “circle” of knowledge will keep things spicy.
Lastly, don’t let her forget about you. While it doesn’t help to text her every hour or so, don’t wait for days before you send her a text. Once you’ve gotten her phone number, she would expect some sort of initiation from you, whether it’s a simple text or a phone call. Regardless of what it is you plan on doing, some sort of contact will be necessary. If you let things cool off for too long a time, the girl would simply dismiss you off as just another guy she has met. You don’t want to be placed in that category. You want her to think that you’re fun to be with and you have lots of interesting things to share with her. Being humorous in your texts is also important if you can pull it off. After all, you’ve got plenty of time to come up with witty replies. Once you’ve gotten much closer to her, the next step would be to start flirting with her to see if she has the same feelings for you. Follow this guide here for the next phase: http://howtotextagirlguide.net/how-to-flirt-with-a-girl-over-text-6-powerful-steps-with-examples/.